{"id":9916,"date":"2024-11-10T08:38:36","date_gmt":"2024-11-10T07:38:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=9916"},"modified":"2024-11-10T08:38:36","modified_gmt":"2024-11-10T07:38:36","slug":"jaume-funes-quina-culpa-te-aquest-adolescent-de-tenir-els-pares-que-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/eap\/jaume-funes-quina-culpa-te-aquest-adolescent-de-tenir-els-pares-que-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Jaume Funes: \u00abQuina culpa t\u00e9 aquest adolescent de tenir els pares que t\u00e9?\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2024\/11\/Funes.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9917\" src=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2024\/11\/Funes-300x201.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2024\/11\/Funes-300x201.png 300w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2024\/11\/Funes-768x516.png 768w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2024\/11\/Funes.png 880w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h5 class=\"c-mainarticle__subtitle\">El psic\u00f2leg i educador diu que \u00aben lloc de pensar, t\u2019eduquen a dir: aix\u00f2 \u00e9s la veritat\u00bb<\/h5>\n<p>Defensa el discurs de l&#8217;esperan\u00e7a i de la paci\u00e8ncia.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.catorze.cat\/noticia\/4437\/encantadorament\/insuportables\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jaume Funes<\/a>\u00a0(Calatayud, 1947) \u00e9s psic\u00f2leg, educador i periodista. Per\u00f2, sobretot, un aliat optimista dels adolescents. Els acompanya sabent que el m\u00e9s important \u00e9s procurar entendre&#8217;ls, fer-los costat i espolsar-los aquelles etiquetes que sovint pesen massa. Dins del cicle\u00a0<em>El poder de l&#8217;educaci\u00f3<\/em>, el dimarts 13 de desembre a les 19.00 conversar\u00e9 amb Eva Bach, i el 20 de desembre a la mateixa hora, amb ell. Ser\u00e0 a l&#8217;Auditori Pau Casals de Sant Salvador (El Vendrell), hi pot venir tothom que ho vulgui i l&#8217;entrada \u00e9s gratu\u00efta.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tens una feina molt intensa.<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>Ahir estava amb una vintena d\u2019adolescents joves del Carmel, en un centre obert, amb xavals, entre cometes, amb risc d\u2019exclusi\u00f3 social. Quan els preguntava: els educadors d\u2019aqu\u00ed, \u00bfqu\u00e8? \u00bfS\u00f3n enrotllats? S\u00ed. Per\u00f2 \u00bfquin \u00e9s el millor? I una diu: Tal. \u00bfPer qu\u00e8? Perqu\u00e8 nom\u00e9s arribes aqu\u00ed, et mira la cara i ja sap si est\u00e0s contenta o no. L\u2019altre dia em feia mal el queixal i ella era l\u2019\u00fanica que em preguntava com estava. O anem de col\u00f2nies i abans d\u2019anar a dormir, si cal, ve i ens fa un pet\u00f3. Est\u00e0vem parlant de xavals de disset i divuit anys.<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>Per\u00f2 tamb\u00e9 necessiten que alg\u00fa es preocupi per ells.<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>Quan fa temps anava a la comissaria de la policia, perqu\u00e8 havien detingut algun xaval, sabia que anava a buscar problemes. Per\u00f2 el noi veia que en un moment de dificultat i de crisi, havia estat al seu costat. El que jo hi podia fer era relatiu. Per\u00f2 que ell vei\u00e9s que quan estava detingut jo estava espantat, i m\u2019hi interessava, era molt important. \u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>Si tinc un problema i em fas costat, sigui ara o sigui d\u2019aqu\u00ed a vint anys, t\u2019ho valorar\u00e9 molt.<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00c9s el que em desespera en l\u2019actualitat: quan apareix el tema de les etiquetes psiqui\u00e0triques.<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>\u00c9s una forma de catalogar en sacs.<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>He estat implicat en demandes de fam\u00edlies de xavals que tenien la mateixa etiqueta: trastorn per d\u00e8ficit d\u2019atenci\u00f3, trastorn negativista desafiant. I? Ara qu\u00e8 estem fent amb ells?<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>Posar-los un nom.<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>La fam\u00edlia ja est\u00e0 tranquil\u00b7la perqu\u00e8 t\u00e9 l\u2019etiqueta. Per\u00f2 \u00bfi ells?<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>\u00bfEls deixem ser m\u00e9s enll\u00e0 de l\u2019etiqueta?<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>S\u00ed, per\u00f2 quina resposta els donaran? L\u2019etiqueta serveix en la mesura que diferenciar un diagn\u00f2stic et permet diferenciar la intervenci\u00f3. Si et fa mal el cap, no et dono una medicina per als peus. Ara, si el noi \u00e9s dispers, si no aguanta l\u2019atenci\u00f3 m\u00e9s de dos minuts, la resposta quina ser\u00e0? Prestar-li atenci\u00f3 i ajudar-lo que es concentri. O donar-li un f\u00e0rmac. Al final hi ha la desesperaci\u00f3 de com el podem ajudar perqu\u00e8 no s\u2019espatlli abans que comenci a tenir una mica de seny.<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>\u00bfCom era la teva escola?<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/>Vaig anar a una escola franquista, d\u2019all\u00f2 del tinter i la ploma.<br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0<br class=\"blank\" \/><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e8 hi vas aprendre i desaprendre?<\/strong><br class=\"blank\" \/>\u00a0Si vols continuar amb l&#8217;article, clica <a href=\"https:\/\/www.catorze.cat\/sala-destar\/converses\/jaume-funes-quina-culpa-te-aquest-adolescent-de-tenir-els-pares-que-te_130978_102.html?sfnsn=scwspmo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>aqu\u00ed<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>El psic\u00f2leg i educador diu que \u00aben lloc de pensar, t\u2019eduquen a dir: aix\u00f2 \u00e9s la veritat\u00bb Defensa el discurs de l&#8217;esperan\u00e7a i de la paci\u00e8ncia.\u00a0Jaume Funes\u00a0(Calatayud, 1947) \u00e9s psic\u00f2leg, educador i periodista. Per\u00f2, sobretot, un aliat optimista dels adolescents. Els acompanya sabent que el m\u00e9s important \u00e9s procurar entendre&#8217;ls, fer-los costat i espolsar-los aquelles [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9917,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9916","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eap"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9916","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9916"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9916\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9918,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9916\/revisions\/9918"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9917"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9916"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9916"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9916"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}