{"id":7017,"date":"2023-05-30T16:25:02","date_gmt":"2023-05-30T14:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=7017"},"modified":"2023-05-30T16:25:11","modified_gmt":"2023-05-30T14:25:11","slug":"un-clatellot-al-teu-fill-es-una-agressio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/eap\/un-clatellot-al-teu-fill-es-una-agressio\/","title":{"rendered":"Un clatellot al teu fill \u00e9s una agressi\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2023\/05\/4.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-7018\" src=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2023\/05\/4-300x176.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2023\/05\/4-300x176.png 300w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2023\/05\/4.png 436w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\"><strong>\u00c1lvaro Bilbao<\/strong>\u00a0\u00e9s\u00a0<strong>doctor en psicologia, neuropsic\u00f2leg, escriptor i pare de tres nens;<\/strong>\u00a0s&#8217;ha format a l&#8217;Hospital Johns Hopskins i al Kennedy Krieger Institute, ha col\u00b7laborat amb l&#8217;Organitzaci\u00f3 Mundial de la Salut i la Uni\u00f3 Europea, i les seves investigacions li han valgut diversos premis. A m\u00e9s, t\u00e9 una comunitat a xarxes de\u00a0<strong>gaireb\u00e9 un mili\u00f3 i mig de seguidors<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\">A partir del coneixement del cervell, divulga\u00a0<strong>sobre l&#8217;educaci\u00f3 en positiu<\/strong>\u00a0per millorar el vincle entre pares i fills. Ha publicat els llibres\u00a0<i>El cervell dels nens explicat als pares<\/i>\u00a0(2015), tradu\u00eft a 24 idiomes;\u00a0<i>Cuida tu cerebro\u00a0<\/i>(2013);\u00a0<i>Todos a la cama<\/i>\u00a0(2017), i l&#8217;\u00faltim,\u00a0<i>Hola fam\u00edlia\u00a0<\/i>(2022).<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\"><strong>Educar en positiu \u00e9s educar sense crits ni c\u00e0stigs?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\">\u00c9s educar amb fermesa i afecte, substituint els crits i les amenaces per altres eines que busquin la cooperaci\u00f3, la comprensi\u00f3, entendre sempre el que li est\u00e0 passant al nen. Veig pares i mares que diuen coses molt dures als seus fills: &#8220;Tu no en tens ni idea&#8221;, &#8220;Tu no pots opinar&#8221;&#8230; Hi ha moments en qu\u00e8 la fermesa \u00e9s molt important, per\u00f2 la comprensi\u00f3 i l&#8217;enlla\u00e7 ho s\u00f3n m\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\"><strong>Hi deu haver lectors que pensin que aquesta metodologia de la comprensi\u00f3 ens porta a tenir nens consentits\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\" data-gtm-element-container=\"modulo-texto-link\">Moltes persones pensen que educar en positiu \u00e9s educar sense normes o sense l\u00edmits, i m\u00e9s aviat \u00e9s el contrari. Si ho preguntes a les meves filles et diran que els seus pares s\u00f3n m\u00e9s estrictes que els de les seves amigues. A les seves amigues a l&#8217;escola potser els seus pares els criden, per\u00f2 elles acaben fent el que els dona la gana. Amb les normes i els l\u00edmits cal ser estrictes, ferms, amb afecte i sentit com\u00fa. Esclar que de vegades se m&#8217;escapa el crit, per\u00f2 cal fer servir moltes eines educatives, i aix\u00f2 \u00e9s complicat.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"module-title\">&#8220;Amb les normes i els l\u00edmits cal ser estrictes, ferms, amb afecte i sentit com\u00fa&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rac1.cat\/psicologia\/20230518\/108911\/alvaro-bilbao-psicoleg-educacio-instagram-clatellot-agressio.html#foto-2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>M\u00e9s informaci\u00f3<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c1lvaro Bilbao\u00a0\u00e9s\u00a0doctor en psicologia, neuropsic\u00f2leg, escriptor i pare de tres nens;\u00a0s&#8217;ha format a l&#8217;Hospital Johns Hopskins i al Kennedy Krieger Institute, ha col\u00b7laborat amb l&#8217;Organitzaci\u00f3 Mundial de la Salut i la Uni\u00f3 Europea, i les seves investigacions li han valgut diversos premis. A m\u00e9s, t\u00e9 una comunitat a xarxes de\u00a0gaireb\u00e9 un mili\u00f3 i mig de [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7018,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eap"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7017"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7017\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7019,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7017\/revisions\/7019"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}