{"id":7012,"date":"2023-05-30T16:14:33","date_gmt":"2023-05-30T14:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=7012"},"modified":"2023-05-30T16:15:27","modified_gmt":"2023-05-30T14:15:27","slug":"una-infancia-infelic-no-determina-la-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/eap\/una-infancia-infelic-no-determina-la-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Una inf\u00e0ncia infeli\u00e7 no determina la vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201cLa resili\u00e8ncia \u00e9s la resist\u00e8ncia que ofereix un cos a la ruptura per un cop i la capacitat humana d\u2019assumir amb flexibilitat situacions l\u00edmit i sobreposar-s\u2019hi.\u201d<\/main>Despr\u00e9s que els seus pares morissin en camps de concentraci\u00f3 nazi i visqu\u00e9s en orfenats, el neur\u00f2leg Boris Cyrulnik (Bordeus, 1937) va adoptar el concepte de resili\u00e8ncia i el va aplicar al camp de la psicologia infantil per explicar que qualsevol nen pot tornar a comen\u00e7ar despr\u00e9s d\u2019haver patit una experi\u00e8ncia traum\u00e0tica. Per mostrar que cap ferida indica un dest\u00ed, que un nen traumatitzat no est\u00e0 condemnat a convertir-se en un adult fracassat i que alg\u00fa que ha estat maltractat a la infantesa no t\u00e9 per qu\u00e8 convertir-se en un futur maltractador. Llegim 14 fragments del seu llibre\u00a0Los patitos feos<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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1.\u00a0<\/strong>El primer dels factors de la resili\u00e8ncia \u00e9s la trobada amb una persona significativa. A vegades amb una sola n\u2019hi ha prou: una mestra que amb una frase torna l\u2019esperan\u00e7a a un nen, un monitor esportiu que li fa comprendre que les relacions humanes poden ser f\u00e0cils, un moss\u00e8n que transfigura el patiment en transcend\u00e8ncia, un jardiner, un actor, un escriptor, qualsevol persona que converteixi en realitat la idea \u00abEs pot superar\u00bb. Tot el que estableix de nou el vincle social modifica la imatge que el ferit es fa de si mateix. La idea de \u00absentir-se malament i ser el dolent\u00bb es transforma gr\u00e0cies a la trobada en un company afectu\u00f3s que li fa n\u00e9ixer el desig de superaci\u00f3.\u00a0

2.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00abMe\u2019n vaig sortir\u00bb. Se\u2019n sorprenen, els resilients, que despr\u00e9s d\u2019una ferida hagin apr\u00e8s de nou a viure. Aquest pas de l\u2019ombra a la llum, la fugida del subterrani o la sortida de la tomba exigeix aprendre de nou a viure una altra vida.\u00a0

3.\u00a0<\/strong>El final del maltractament no \u00e9s el final del problema. Trobar una fam\u00edlia d\u2019acollida quan s\u2019ha perdut la pr\u00f2pia no \u00e9s m\u00e9s que el principi de la q\u00fcesti\u00f3: \u00abI ara qu\u00e8 far\u00e9?\u00bb. No perqu\u00e8 l\u2019aneguet lleig hagi trobat una fam\u00edlia de cignes s\u2019ha acabat tot. La ferida est\u00e0 escrita a la seva hist\u00f2ria, est\u00e0 gravada a la seva mem\u00f2ria. [\u2026] S\u2019ha de colpejar dues vegades perqu\u00e8 es produeixi una ferida. El primer cop, el que es rep en la realitat, provoca el dolor de la ferida o l\u2019esquin\u00e7ament\u00a0de la car\u00e8ncia. I el segon, que \u00e9s la representaci\u00f3 de la realitat, provoca el patiment d\u2019haver estat humiliat, abandonat. \u00abQu\u00e8 far\u00e9 ara? Queixar-me cada dia i intentar venjar-me o aprendre a viure una altra vida, la dels cignes?\u00bb

4.\u00a0<\/strong>Per curar el primer cop cal que el meu cos i la meva mem\u00f2ria aconsegueixin fer un proc\u00e9s lent de cicatritzaci\u00f3. I per atenuar el patiment del segon, he de canviar la idea que tinc del que m\u2019ha passat, he d\u2019aconseguir modificar la representaci\u00f3 de la meva desgr\u00e0cia i de la seva posada en escena, davant dels vostres ulls.

5.\u00a0<\/strong>Quan els jutges condemnen la v\u00edctima, quan els oients s\u00f3n burletes o incr\u00e8duls, quan els parents m\u00e9s propers estan enfonsats o es dediquen a fer sermons, la resili\u00e8ncia \u00e9s impossible. Per\u00f2 si el ferit pot compartir el seu m\u00f3n o fins i tot transformar-lo en milit\u00e0ncia, en intel\u00b7lectualitzaci\u00f3 o en obra d\u2019art, llavors el nen traumatitzat es convertir\u00e0 en un adult rehabilitat.<\/p>\n

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Boris Cyrulnik \u201cLa resili\u00e8ncia \u00e9s la resist\u00e8ncia que ofereix un cos a la ruptura per un cop i la capacitat humana d\u2019assumir amb flexibilitat situacions l\u00edmit i sobreposar-s\u2019hi.\u201dDespr\u00e9s que els seus pares morissin en camps de concentraci\u00f3 nazi i visqu\u00e9s en orfenats, el neur\u00f2leg Boris Cyrulnik (Bordeus, 1937) va adoptar el concepte de resili\u00e8ncia i 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