{"id":4658,"date":"2022-02-24T16:53:59","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T15:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=4658"},"modified":"2022-02-24T16:53:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T15:53:59","slug":"com-conversar-amb-els-vostres-fills-sense-caure-en-preguntes-topiques","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/eap\/com-conversar-amb-els-vostres-fills-sense-caure-en-preguntes-topiques\/","title":{"rendered":"Com conversar amb els vostres fills sense caure en preguntes t\u00f2piques"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2022\/02\/2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4659 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2022\/02\/2-300x227.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2022\/02\/2-300x227.png 300w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2022\/02\/2-200x150.png 200w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2022\/02\/2.png 619w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h6 class=\"subtitle\">No hi ha recurs m\u00e9s infructu\u00f3s que preguntar &#8220;Qu\u00e8 tal, el dia?&#8221; Busquem altres f\u00f3rmules!<\/h6>\n<div class=\"info\">\n<div class=\"authors\">\n<h6 class=\"author\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ara.cat\/firmes\/laura-pinyol\/\">Laura Pinyol<\/a><\/h6>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEns mireu per\u00f2 no ens veieu\u201d. Aquesta frase tan taxativa la va recollir l\u2019educadora emocional Cristina Guti\u00e9rrez, directora de La Granja, un centre de formaci\u00f3 en habilitats i granja-escola, a Santa Maria de Palautordera, al Parc Natural del Montseny. Mare i formadora, habituada a treballar amb nens i nenes de totes les edats, va adonar-se un dia \u2013amb sorpresa\u2013 de com un grup d\u2019infants d\u2019onze i dotze anys percebien les preguntes habituals de pares i mares: \u201cNom\u00e9s ens fan preguntes\u00a0<em>cutres<\/em>!\u201d. Divertida i disposada a estirar el fil, va anar indagant sobre aix\u00f2: \u201cSi et pregunten \u00abQu\u00e8 has fet avui a l\u2019escola?\u00bb, doncs, qu\u00e8 vols que hagi fet? El de tots els dimecres, mates, angl\u00e8s i educaci\u00f3 f\u00edsica\u201d. Sembla que equivalents com \u00abQu\u00e8 tal el dia?\u00bb tenen el mateix efecte:\u00a0\u201c\u00c9s com complir un protocol, per anar de pressa\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Del mateix parer \u00e9s l\u2019Alba Castellv\u00ed, soci\u00f2loga i educadora, que assegura que les preguntes generalistes \u201ctenen un problema maj\u00fascul, perqu\u00e8 els fills les solen respondre amb monos\u00edl\u00b7labs tipus \u00abB\u00e9\u00bb o, com a molt, amb un bis\u00edl\u00b7lab tipus \u00abNormal\u00bb\u201d. Per tant, \u201cs\u00f3n preguntes ben poc \u00fatils, perqu\u00e8 les preguntes generen frustraci\u00f3 a qui les planteja i les respostes s\u00f3n gaireb\u00e9 sempre insatisfact\u00f2ries\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Aix\u00f2 \u00e9s aix\u00ed perqu\u00e8 \u201cals fills els fa mandra contestar perqu\u00e8 fer un resum del dia \u2013que \u00e9s el que els pares els agradaria obtenir\u2013 implica fer mem\u00f2ria, endre\u00e7ar les impressions i els esdeveniments i sintetitzar-ho tot. I la majoria de les vegades no s\u2019est\u00e0 disposat a fer aquest esfor\u00e7\u201d. Potser en aquest punt, caldria tamb\u00e9 ser sensats i valorar si els pares actuen d\u2019in\u00e8rcia o, sincerament, s\u2019interessen per aquestes preguntes ordin\u00e0ries. \u201cElls no troben que explicar res concret serveixi\u00a0per a alguna cosa m\u00e9s que satisfer la nostra curiositat, i hem de recordar que fer vincle a trav\u00e9s de\u00a0la conversa i mantenir la cordialitat a trav\u00e9s del di\u00e0leg no \u00e9s sentit com una necessitat\u201d.<\/p>\n<div class=\"advertising banner content\">\n<div id=\"content-1000002-272048\" class=\"advertising-wrapper\" data-google-query-id=\"COfO3-bXmPYCFUKEhQodwY8GoA\"><a href=\"https:\/\/criatures.ara.cat\/familia\/conversar-vostres-fills-caure-preguntes-topiques_130_4267204.html?utm_campaign=echobox&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1645215632\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>M\u00e9s informaci\u00f3 ARA Criatures<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No hi ha recurs m\u00e9s infructu\u00f3s que preguntar &#8220;Qu\u00e8 tal, el dia?&#8221; Busquem altres f\u00f3rmules! Laura Pinyol &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; \u201cEns mireu per\u00f2 no ens veieu\u201d. 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