{"id":3680,"date":"2021-09-30T16:41:18","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T14:41:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=3680"},"modified":"2021-09-30T16:41:18","modified_gmt":"2021-09-30T14:41:18","slug":"hem-perdut-lart-deducar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/crp\/hem-perdut-lart-deducar\/","title":{"rendered":"Hem perdut l&#8217;art d&#8217;educar?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2021\/09\/Captura-28.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3681 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2021\/09\/Captura-28-300x132.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"132\" srcset=\"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2021\/09\/Captura-28-300x132.png 300w, https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-content\/uploads\/usu773\/2021\/09\/Captura-28.png 759w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span class=\"text\" data-v-5dde30c4=\"\">Si es pot dir que l&#8217;art d&#8217;educar s&#8217;ha perdut, en part pot ser pel fet que les fam\u00edlies estan soles. Els falta el concepte tribu.<\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"author\" data-v-5dde30c4=\"\">GETTY<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Si educar ha sigut mai un art, actualment s\u2019ha perdut, afirma la periodista nord-americana Michaeleen Doucleff. Per molts motius, entre els quals hi ha el fet que les fam\u00edlies estan soles, no tenen referents, ni tampoc gaire ajuda. \u201cI esclar que hem d\u2019admetre que els referents educatius d\u2019una fam\u00edlia podria ser que no fossin bons necess\u00e0riament, per\u00f2 \u00e9s que no hi ha res perfecte\u201d, explica en una entrevista telef\u00f2nica per al diari ARA Doucleff, que acaba de publicar el llibre\u00a0<em>L\u2019art perdut d\u2019educar. Recuperar la saviesa ancestral per educar petits \u00e9ssers humans feli\u00e7os<\/em>\u00a0(Columna).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Despr\u00e9s que l\u2019autora hagi viatjat per tot el m\u00f3n, explica en el llibre<strong>\u00a0quina \u00e9s la base d\u2019una bona educaci\u00f3. Primer, la cooperaci\u00f3<\/strong>. Des que s\u00f3n ben petites, a les criatures se\u2019ls ha d\u2019ensenyar a ajudar. \u201cAprendre a fer tasques volunt\u00e0riament t\u00e9 truc: es triga anys a aprendre-ho, perqu\u00e8 se\u2019ls ha d\u2019ensenyar amb paci\u00e8ncia i a poc a poc, tal com aprenen a llegir o a escriure\u201d, explica l\u2019autora, que es basa en els costums de la cultura maia per explicar aquest primer pilar. \u201cEls nens petits de tot el m\u00f3n volen ajudar, en tenen moltes ganes; i \u00e9s aix\u00ed des que neixen perqu\u00e8 es moren de ganes de posar-se a fer les coses tots sols\u201d. L\u2019autora la remarca aquesta idea amb estudis cient\u00edfics, com ara el que assegura que \u201cnens de vint-i-un mesos paraven de jugar amb la seva joguina nova i anaven a ajudar un adult a collir alguna cosa de terra\u201d. Per qu\u00e8 \u00e9s aix\u00ed? \u201cNo se sap, per\u00f2 podria ser pel desig tan fort que senten de ser amb la fam\u00edlia, d\u2019estar connectats amb els pares, els germans i els cuidadors\u201d.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>En la cultura maia, les fam\u00edlies deixen que els fills ajudin, des de petits, perqu\u00e8 ho interpreten com un desig de contribuir a la fam\u00edlia<\/strong>. \u201cL\u2019\u00fanic problema \u00e9s que el nen \u00e9s massa petit per saber, al comen\u00e7ament, com ajudar de la millor manera. Necessita aprendre\u2019n&#8221;. I durant molts anys, diguem-ho sense embuts, \u201cm\u00e9s que ajudar,\u00a0<em>desajudar\u00e0<\/em>\u201d, i \u00e9s aquesta la idea que cal assumir. \u201cEn la cultura maia, els pares veuen el desgavell com una inversi\u00f3. Si ara animes el marrec incompetent que t\u00e9 ganes de rentar els plats, amb el temps ser\u00e0 un nen competent de nou anys que encara voldr\u00e0 ajudar, i ser\u00e0 una gran contribuci\u00f3\u201d. \u00c9s m\u00e9s, continua explicant l\u2019autora, \u201cels psic\u00f2legs creuen que\u00a0<strong>com m\u00e9s petits comencin a ajudar la fam\u00edlia, encara que amb prou feines caminin, \u00e9s m\u00e9s probable que quan creixin siguin adolescents servicials<\/strong>\u00a0per als quals fer feines dom\u00e8stiques sigui natural\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/criatures.ara.cat\/familia\/hem-perdut-l-art-d-educar_130_4108458.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>M\u00e9s informaci\u00f3<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Si es pot dir que l&#8217;art d&#8217;educar s&#8217;ha perdut, en part pot ser pel fet que les fam\u00edlies estan soles. Els falta el concepte tribu.\u00a0GETTY Si educar ha sigut mai un art, actualment s\u2019ha perdut, afirma la periodista nord-americana Michaeleen Doucleff. Per molts motius, entre els quals hi ha el fet que les fam\u00edlies estan [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3681,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[65,67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-crp","category-eap"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3680"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3682,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3680\/revisions\/3682"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3681"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}