{"id":12004,"date":"2025-12-14T08:52:01","date_gmt":"2025-12-14T07:52:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/?p=12004"},"modified":"2025-12-14T08:52:01","modified_gmt":"2025-12-14T07:52:01","slug":"aturar-se-per-poder-rebre-i-donar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/eap\/aturar-se-per-poder-rebre-i-donar\/","title":{"rendered":"Aturar-se, per poder rebre i donar"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Temps \u201cbuit\u201d per a les fam\u00edlies per permetre que aflori la bondat: aquesta idea recorre l\u2019article, que convida a recuperar espais sense presses ni pantalles, on mares, pares i infants puguin simplement estar junts, rodolar per terra, jugar i compartir silencis. En aquests temps regalats neixen serenitat, confian\u00e7a i cooperaci\u00f3, es teixeixen xarxes de crian\u00e7a en comunitat i es recrea un clima familiar on la bondat pot apar\u00e8ixer sense exigir res a ning\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Quan retorno als materials generats per acompanyar fam\u00edlies i persones en el seu proc\u00e9s de ser i estar millor (ara en diem de \u201cbenestar\u201d) de fa deu, quinze o vint anys em passa que hi trobo criteris i orientacions molt v\u00e0lids i realment \u00fatils, que tenen tot el sentit encara avui. Aleshores em pregunto: Qu\u00e8 \u00e9s el que les converteix en obsoletes? \u00c9s l\u2019omnipres\u00e8ncia d\u2019internet i la IA en la vida quotidiana? \u00c9s aquest ap\u00e8ndix digital que tots portem a la m\u00e0 o al canell?<\/p>\n

Si faig una primera recerca superficial em trobo mil respostes que situen totes les maldats, desajustaments, i desastres de la humanitat en les xarxes, els videojocs, els m\u00f2bils, la IA i tot el que s\u2019hi relaciona. I podria ser tan c\u00f2mode quedar-se aqu\u00ed apostar per una tornada enrere!!!<\/p>\n

Per sort, tenim veus m\u00e9s que ens ajuden a mirar una mica m\u00e9s enll\u00e0 o m\u00e9s cap aqu\u00ed mateix i adonar-nos que \u00e9s l\u2019exig\u00e8ncia d\u2019utilitat i la velocitat de la vida estan infiltrats en el fons de les nostres maneres de viure i relacionar-nos les que estan modificant la vida en fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n

Alg\u00fa pot pensar que aquesta visi\u00f3 utilitarista i velo\u00e7 de la vida prov\u00e9 de l\u2019\u00fas abusiu de continguts i dispositius digitals. Per\u00f2 sabem que fins i tot les fam\u00edlies que han deixat de banda les pantalles o els qui viuen gestionant-ne una mica menys tamb\u00e9 s\u00f3n preses d\u2019aquest activisme de 24 hores per fer, per consumir, per distreure\u2019s, per informar-se, per produir\u2026 i estar fent tot el dia coses que ja tenen el nom comercialitzat (Abans ens rent\u00e0vem la cara i ara fem rutina facial i, evidentment, cal comprar els productes. O si est\u00e0vem cansats sort\u00edem al balc\u00f3 a badar i ara ens relaxem fent un curs de mindfulness).<\/p>\n

Un nad\u00f3 no necessita pantalles: necessita pres\u00e8ncia serena i temps per ser estimat.<\/p>\n

Fins i tot hi ha fam\u00edlies que han deixat de banda les pantalles, per\u00f2 segueixen anant superatabalades perqu\u00e8 s\u2019autoexigeixen estar de dia i de nit pendents de la criatura i no es permeten ni dormir ni descansar, ni deixar d\u2019estar jugant ni donar espai perqu\u00e8 a la criatura estigui sense res, cap \u201cest\u00edmul\u201d ni f\u00edsic ni sonor (Ai\u00a0els assistents de veu i les llistes de m\u00fasica per beb\u00e8s o infants que s\u00f3n omnipresents!!!!)<\/p>\n

Per sort, cada infant que neix ens torna a posar al lloc: Un nounat \u00e9s un comptador de temps posat a zero, un regal del temps, que ens obliga a aturar-nos. Un desenvolupament que es posa en marxa i que no podem m\u00e9s que acompanyar (ni accelerar ni alentir).<\/p>\n

Un embar\u00e0s dura el que dura, cada part t\u00e9 uns tempos propis. Cada infant t\u00e9 el seu ritme per anar creixent\u2026 I el temps, que els adults volem controlar, quan hi ha un infant, s\u2019entossudeix a posar-se en un altre registre que no va de minuts, ni d\u2019hores, ni de dies. Va d\u2019estar b\u00e9, de sentir-se acompanyat, de ser sostingut, de poder estar segur per separar-se una estona i poder tornar.<\/p>\n

Per sort, i per qu\u00e8 hi ha sensibilitat i acci\u00f3 social i pol\u00edtica, disposem de professionals i espais per a les fam\u00edlies que ofereixen temps per estar amb els menuts i no haver de fer res m\u00e9s. Temps \u201cbuits\u201d d\u2019activisme. Espais on estar.<\/p>\n

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Temps \u201cbuit\u201d per a les fam\u00edlies per permetre que aflori la bondat: aquesta idea recorre l\u2019article, que convida a recuperar espais sense presses ni pantalles, on mares, pares i infants puguin simplement estar junts, rodolar per terra, jugar i compartir silencis. En aquests temps regalats neixen serenitat, confian\u00e7a i cooperaci\u00f3, es teixeixen xarxes de crian\u00e7a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12005,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eap"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12004"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12004\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12006,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12004\/revisions\/12006"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12005"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serveiseducatius.xtec.cat\/selva1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}